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The Writer's Mind-Body Connection
by Kara Lennox
A few years ago, if I'd
done a workshop on "mind-body connection," many of you
might have dismissed it as "woo-woo stuff." You know
what I mean. Paranormal, metaphysical, woo-woo. After all, many
of the books written on the subject are found in THAT section of
the bookstore. You know the one I mean, the one that lumps
witchcraft and Tarot cards with meditation and visualization.
But in recent years, even
mainstream medical physicians agree that the mind-body connection
is far more extensive than anyone had guessed. Consider the
following statements:
Type-A behavior, typified
by aggressiveness and hostility, has been linked to increased
risk of heart attack.
Emotional stress can
raise your blood pressure and contribute to the formation of
stomach ulcers.
Biofeedback and
meditation can lower blood pressure, lower oxygen consumption,
slow heart beat and respiration, and lower blood lactate--which
is connected to anxiety.
Fear or excitement lead
to the release of adrenaline in the body, causing the fight or
flight mechanism to come into play--and causing a certain amount
of pleasure.
Panting during childbirth
relieves pain.
A hypnotized subject can
produce welts on the skin simulating burns, when they haven't
been burned.
Rats and mice have been
conditioned to enhance or suppress their immune systems.
The placebo effect can
relieve pain and alleviate other symptoms of disease.
Chocolate elevates mood,
especially for women.
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Most of you will probably
agree that some or all of the above statements are true. All have
been shown to be true either through clinical studies or under
laboratory conditions, so the documentation is clear: mind and
body are connected; your thoughts can directly affect your body
and vice-versa.
While the mechanisms that
make this true aren't always crystal clear--medical science still
hasn't explained why acupuncture works, even while they
acknowledge that it does work--researchers are learning
more about this area of science all the time. One very active
area of research is studying neurotransmitters, the brain's
messengers to the body. Neurotransmitters, which include
hormones, regulate everything from sexual desire to sleep
patterns, appetite and mood. Depression, addictions, PMS,
insomnia and even chocolate cravings have a physical basis in our
chemistry. There is even a chemical reason why we
"freeze" when something grabs our attention.
But rather than getting
any deeper into the scientific aspects--and I couldn't,
anyway--what I want to talk about is the implications these
scientific findings have for us as writers.
The mind/body connection
probably has more relevance for creative artists, including
writers, than for the average person.
What you do to your body
affects how you think, how you create, and how you feel about
what you've created. And how you direct your mind, what you allow
yourself to focus on, has a profound effect on your body.
Most of you have probably
heard, or read, or figured out for yourself that writing, in
general, is good for you. Studies have shown that creative
expression, including writing--especially writing about your
feelings--is an excellent way to fight depression and reduce
stress and anxiety. That's why so many therapists recommend
journaling for their patients. Rather than keep negative emotions
bottled up, we can release them--harmlessly--through writing.
Who in this room could
resist smiling when we watched Kathleen Turner as Joan Wilder in
Romancing the Stone, weeping as she typed a heart-rending
conclusion to one of her romance novels? We all do it. We
experience emotions right along with our characters, and thus we
can create an emotional catharsis when we write a happy ending.
Catharisis is good. We
work through our problems with our writing. For example, we might
be drawn to write about romantic conflicts that reflect our own
experiences or those of loved ones, thereby clarifying our
feelings about those experiences.
One form of therapy I
read about encourages patients who have suffered a traumatic loss
to write down the experience, except change the events so they go
the way they wish they had. In our stories, we might use an
incident from our own past. The heroine represents ourselves, but
better. And the heroine might act in ways we wish we had,
attaining a result that we wish we could have attained.
When I was going through
a particularly trying time with my father, I wrote a book about a
woman going through the same things. Seeing it in black and white
helped me to understand my own anger and put it in perspective.
Granted, this book never sold. But the act of putting my feelings
into another character was immensely satisfying. Once I got it
out of my system I could move on to other things.
Writing is good not only
for purging negative emotions, but for creating positive ones as
well. Nothing compares to the exhilaration that comes with typing
"the end." Or that happy surge of adrenaline when a new
idea is cooking, and we're working out the plot and things are
falling into place, or that lovely moment when a character
suddenly comes to life and all you're doing is taking dictation.
Most of us feel pleasantly tired but deeply satisfied after a
productive writing day. The act of making progress toward the
goal of finishing a book is immensely empowering. And feelings of
empowerment--the opposite of helplessness--are associated with
decreased stress, all of which leads to a healthier body.
But there's a DOWNSIDE to
this otherwise idyllic life we lead.
Creative people in
general tend to suffer from more mental illness, including
depression and substance abuse, than the population at large.
(Edgar Allen Poe, Van Gogh, Ernest Hemingway, Virginia Woolf off
the top of my head.) One study showed that creative people tend
to have more blood relatives who are institutionalized.
No one is really sure
whether writing and painting lead to insanity, or whether
mentally unstable people are drawn to creative endeavors. One
theory suggests that people with mental illness are drawn to
creative outlets as a form of self-therapy.
At any rate, lots of
writers either suffer from depression, which suppresses your
immune system and causes illness, or are obsessive-compulsives,
which causes stress, anxiety, and all their related health
problems. An astounding number of writers I know personally are
either on Prozac, Zoloft, Paxil, Xanax, Atavan, Valium, you name
it. These drugs can be life-savers, literally. But be aware that
they can have a negative effect on your creativity.
Anti-depressants tend to flatten your mood. So while you get rid
of the suicidal tendencies, you also get rid of the highs. When I
was on Zoloft, I couldn't write worth beans. I lost my edge, my
passion, and a lot of my motivation for writing. There was no
"writer's high."
That's not a very
attractive choice, between depression and an inability to write.
Because if you're a writer, if you're one of those people
compelled to write, then NOT WRITING can make you depressed.
So whatever your frame of
mind you're in, keep writing to maintain your mental health. I
know sometimes life gets in the way. Illness, death, mandatory
overtime, moving across the country, family obligations all can
cut into your writing time. And especially if you're not
published or if you don't depend on your writing income for your
livelihood, it's very easy to put it on the list of
"frivolous, non-essential activities" and thrust it
aside in favor of laundry.
But I really urge you not
to do that. No matter what is going on in your life, you have the
right to pursue a creative activity that fulfills you. I'm not
saying you shut yourself away for days at a time and ignore your
family in crisis. I'm saying you can find an hour SOMEWHERE in
your day to write, and you shouldn't feel guilty about it. (I
could do a whole workshop on guilt's detrimental effects.)
If you're waiting for
your life to "settle down" before you write, forget it,
it's not going to happen. You can actually write your way through
a crisis. I know some writers that use their writing time as
therapy, as an escape when life gets just too grisly. You need
that time. Give yourself permission to take it. Overall you'll
experience less stress and anxiety and a healthier body.
Now let's talk about
another negative impact writing can have on your body and some
ways to avoid that.
THIS IS MY OWN PERSONAL
THEORY BASED ON PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.
You've probably heard of
positive imagery, guided imagery, creative visualization. That's
where you listen to a tape that describes relaxing scenes and
guides you one step at a time to total body relaxation. It's one
way to treat stress. You visualize a sunny beach, a mountain
meadow, or floating on fluffy white clouds. Such images can lower
your blood pressure and boost your immune system, actually
leading to healing of the body. You can reduce bleeding during
surgery, lessen post-operative pain, spend fewer days in the
hospital. All documented.
Now, think about the
images you deal with, the world you create. For ninety percent of
your writing life, what are you writing about? Conflict. Angst.
Problems. How many times have you heard it? Conflict on
every page.Those of us who write suspense spend our days dodging
bullets, having our cars forced off the road and having our
apartments ransacked. Even when we're writing love scenes, we get
the adrenaline pumping. And if you're really doing a good
job, you're really getting into your story. You climb into
the skin of your characters and suffer right along with them.
The world you create is every bit as real to your body as if it
were actually happening. I've written several books that
included a birth scene. I felt like I wanted morphine after
eight hours of writing about that!
This is the opposite of
positive imagery.
Think about this. Have
you ever been feeling cranky, or fearful, or exhausted, and you
can't quite figure out why? And then you realize it's because
you're inside your book? You're worried about your
characters. You're mad at your hero, not your husband.
You're stressed out from dealing with a fictional baby. Negative
imagery can cause stress, and stress is the number-one cause of
illness
SOLUTION: We can't
stop writing those scenes. We have to make them as
gut-wrenching as possible. So take frequent mental breaks,
practice deep breathing, and visualize peaceful scenes. At
the end of your writing session, perform some kind of ritual that
you associate with transitioning from your writing world to the
real world. Even if it's just turning off your computer,
straightening your desk, and reviewing your activities planned
for the rest of the day. Taking a shower after writing can
"wash" those unneeded angsty emotions away. If
you can't, or don't want to take a real shower, imagine a shower
of silver light raining down on you, washing away any emotions
you don't need.
INSOMNIA. Sometimes
when a new story is percolating, I CANNOT get to sleep because
I'm busy plotting it out, visualizing, coming up with dialogue,
playing scenes in my head.
SOLUTION: Get up
and write it out. If you really don't want to do that, the
afore-mentioned deep breathing, stretching, and visualizing
peaceful scenes can sometimes help. Or listen to one of the
guided imagery tapes on the market.
Think about how you feel
when your writing is going well. You're excited. You're
full of energy. You can't get the words down fast enough.
We call it a CREATIVE HIGH.
So what's going on?
There are actually endorphins, the body's natural feel-good
chemical, floating around. The excitement generated by a new idea
can release endorphins. (So can chocolate and exercise.)
Now, think about how you
feel when your writing is going badly. You feel sleepy.
Lethargic. Your mind is sludge. You probably couldn't
find an endorphin if somebody put an ear tag on it.
SOLUTION: If you're
having one of those sludgy days, don't just keep sitting there
zoned out in front of the computer screen. Don't give in to the
refrigerator or Oprah. Get off your butt and go for a walk or get
on the stair stepper. Move fast enough that you're a little out
of breath. Health professionals recommend 30 minutes at
least four times a week. But if you stick it out for 45
minutes, your endorphins will kick in.
These are the same
endorphins that come from a creative high. So it becomes a
chicken-and-egg story. A burst of creativity releases
endorphins. But if you put the endorphins into your system
by another means, like exercise, it can lead to a burst of
creativity.
Now go sit in front of
the computer again. You'll be amazed how inspired you've
suddenly become, and the effect can last for up to four hours. If
you build regular exercise into your schedule and do it every
day, or almost every day, you can permanently speed up your
metabolism, which means your mind will be more alert all the
time.
Another benefit of
exercising is that sometimes you'll get your best ideas while
running, swimming, or bike-riding. If you push your plot
problems aside and let your subconscious work on them while you
smell the flowers and listen to the birds, your subconscious will
often find the solution for you.
If you don't want to run,
swim or bicycle, you can simply walk the neighborhood.
Or, you might try YOGA.
This is especially good if your mind is so filled with the
problems of everyday life that your story can't wedge its way in
there and your muses have moved to the suburbs. Yoga has a
way of quieting your mind as you focus on stretching, balancing
and breathing. Once your mind is quiet, your story has
space to move right in.
Yoga doesn't have to mean
you twist your body into a pretzel. The wonderful thing
about Yoga is you only have to stretch as far as is comfortable
for you. All positions have modified versions for people
just starting out. One position, called Corpse pose, is
just what it sounds like. Completely relaxing.
My husband, who is a
black belt in Tae Kwon Do, wanted me in particular to mention
martial arts training, which combines strength training, aerobic
fitness, flexibility, breathing and meditation all in one
package. Trust me, he is one of the most relaxed people I
know and he NEVER has writer's block.
If you'd rather sit
around and do nothing, MEDITATION might be for you. It's a
terrific way to quiet your mind and prepare it for writing.
There are lots of different methods, I won't go into them, but
the health benefits are well documented. Meditation can
lower blood pressure, lower your heart rate, boost your immune
system, and generally reduce stress. Some Tibetan yogis can
influence their body temperatures as much as 15 degrees in their
hands and feet.
It's also a great way to
get inspiration. Sometimes wonderful ideas will come to you
while you're meditating.
In addition to a regular
exercise program and physical relaxation techniques, it's
important to take frequent breaks from writing to prevent that
sludgy, exhausted feeling from taking hold in the first place.
Every few minutes, take your eyes off the screen and focus a few
times on some distant object to prevent eye strain. Stretch
your arms above your head. Roll your head. Pay
attention to your posture. And breath three deep breaths.
At least once per hour, stand up and walk around. Go get a
glass of water.
Do make sure you have an
ergonomically correct set-up for your chair, keyboard and screen.
Don't ignore the aches and pains. Your body is trying to
tell you to change something.
NUTRITION: Look at
what you're putting into your body. Eat breakfast, don't
overdo the caffeine, and most important, drink plenty of water.
I seem to do better if I eat some protein for breakfast. A
carbohydrate-rich lunch will make you sleepy in the afternoon.
Tuna for lunch is a good thing, you get your omega-3 fatty acids,
which fight depression.
THERE IS NO PERFECT
EATING PLAN FOR EVERYBODY. Experiment.
Creating optimum health
as a writer is a real balancing act. Always be on guard so you
don't get out of balance. Feed your body, mind and spirit.
Take care of your body, and it will feed your mind. Nourish
your spirit, and it will reward you with a creative mind and a
healthy body. Honor your urge to create, and your spirit
will soar.
Don't forget to reward
yourself for a job well done, and eat chocolate (in moderation).
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